HOW TO CONTROL SEXUAL DESIRE?
In some cases sexual wants and motivations emerge inside us at a quick pace, and accordingly we additionally search for speedy answers for dispose of them. In any case, those arrangements don't keep going for long. Controlling sexual wants is impossible through a handy solution. It requires exhaustive comprehension, a great deal of persistence, inner consistent quality, and in particular, a strong responsibility.
Above all else, with a specific end goal to control wants, it is critical to avoid things that are sexually stimulating. Try not to take a gander at pictures, recordings, or read stories that are of sexual nature. This will increase the sexual driving forces by ten times, making it harder to control the wants. Giving a sexual idea or creative ability a chance to drag out, and being enjoyed it, will likewise make the motivations more grounded. Along these lines, a man ought to be ready and not let the sexual idea to proceed for over a moment. Being engaged with sexuality through contemplations, visuals, and activities will just influence a man to need a greater amount of it. Maintain a strategic distance from organization or companions that empower sexuality, even flippantly. You never know when you may concur with them. Moreover, don't gaze at or investigate the eyes of the inverse sex, and abstain from touching no matter what. In any case, all these are as yet transitory arrangements that won't totally demolish the seeds of sexuality from inside us. Until the point that every one of these seeds of sexuality are totally wrecked, sexual wants can emerge whenever, even at a maturity.
The most critical approach to completely annihilate sexuality is to totally cheapen it. Downgrade the question of fascination (i.e. a man, thought, body parts, and so forth.) to zero. A man should consider all the ways that the delight got from sexuality is simply deceptive, isn't genuine, and is just transitory. When we are enjoyed some type of sexuality, we have a tendency to overlook how messy the human body really is. For example, we overlook that each pore and opening in our body discharges squander which smells horrendous. In the event that dung, sweat, and other release notice so awful, envision how it would be inside the body. Imagining the human body without skin isn't a lovely sight either. This training is done not to make scorn, but rather to comprehend and get the genuine picture of how the human body is, with the goal that we don't get pulled in to it. For the individuals who needed to hone abstinence, Param Pujya Dadashri had given an exceptional understanding called "Three Vision." The Three Vision, he stated, would influence a man to take a gander at the physical body the way it really is, with the goal that we don't have any deceptive connection for it.
Dadashri: "Utilize a similar investigation that I had utilized for myself. For me this examination is always set up and it had kept me mindful even before edification. At the point when my eyes fall on somebody wearing wonderful garments, a saree worth two thousand Rupees, I wind up noticeably mindful and my first vision see her without garments. At that point a moment mindfulness emerges and I see the body without the skin and afterward the third mindfulness emerges and I see the digestion tracts, the kind you see when the stomach is cut open. I can likewise observe changes that happen inside the digestion tracts. I can see veins; I can see fecal issue and so on. I can see all the decline along these lines. At that point there is no way of sexual drive emerging, right? In this, the Soul is the main unadulterated thing and that is the place my vision stops. In this way, in what capacity can any hallucination over sex ever happen?"
To put it plainly, the Three Vision includes envisioning the individual your identity pulled in to as: 1. Without garments, 2. Without Skin, 3. Inward organs, muscles, bones, blood, fecal issue, pee, and so forth. Every one of the three dreams ought to be utilized at the same time and inside a couple of moments. Downgrading ought to be done to a point where nothing identified with sexuality can snatch your consideration notwithstanding for a small amount of a moment.
Try not to wind up plainly inquisitive for anything identified with sexuality. We have a tendency to expect that we will wind up plainly upbeat in the wake of encountering sexuality, either through contemplations or activities. We wind up noticeably inquisitive and attempt better approaches to encounter sexuality, yet at last, the fulfillment that we had expected, never comes. Along these lines, we again search for various approaches to get joy. This ends up noticeably like a dependence which is never satisfied. This will at that point proceed with like an endless loop. The best way to leave this interest is to acknowledge with assurance that genuine bliss will never emerge from sexuality.
A definitive advance for disposing of sexual wants is to comprehend with conviction that there is no satisfaction in any type of sexuality in any capacity. Keeping in mind the end goal to accomplish this, one needs to taste the delight that is higher than that got from sexual joys. That delight must be accomplished from one's own particular Pure Soul. To encounter the ecstasy of Pure Soul, a man must achieve Self-acknowledgment.
At long last, a man ought to positively do pratikraman (genuine contrition) and request pardoning for the wants that are happening now and the ones that have happened already. The contemplations that are coming right now are growing from the bunch of sexuality that was shaped already. Since this bunch has not been expelled, the considerations will keep on coming in some shape.
Different Solutions:
When sexual driving forces emerge continue discussing the accompanying supplication:
"Dear God! Give me limitless internal quality not to have, make somebody have, nor urge anybody to have any sexual wants, sentiments, or signals towards any living being, be it male, female, or of nonpartisan sex. Give me the preeminent quality to be free from every single sexual want, until the end of time."
The wants happen now as a result of our past supposition that there is bliss in sexuality. By discussing the supplication above and requesting quality, we decimate the conclusion and request the wants to not emerge later on.
Saiyam (control) that comes because of apathy towards erotic delights will keep going forever. This aloofness can just happen through itemized thought about how the bliss determined through exotic delights is just fanciful. As opposed to pondering things that force us more towards sexuality, we should consider every one of the outcomes of being ensnared in sexy joys, and every one of the advantages and significance of brahmacharya (chastity).
In some cases sexual wants and motivations emerge inside us at a quick pace, and accordingly we additionally search for speedy answers for dispose of them. In any case, those arrangements don't keep going for long. Controlling sexual wants is impossible through a handy solution. It requires exhaustive comprehension, a great deal of persistence, inner consistent quality, and in particular, a strong responsibility.
Above all else, with a specific end goal to control wants, it is critical to avoid things that are sexually stimulating. Try not to take a gander at pictures, recordings, or read stories that are of sexual nature. This will increase the sexual driving forces by ten times, making it harder to control the wants. Giving a sexual idea or creative ability a chance to drag out, and being enjoyed it, will likewise make the motivations more grounded. Along these lines, a man ought to be ready and not let the sexual idea to proceed for over a moment. Being engaged with sexuality through contemplations, visuals, and activities will just influence a man to need a greater amount of it. Maintain a strategic distance from organization or companions that empower sexuality, even flippantly. You never know when you may concur with them. Moreover, don't gaze at or investigate the eyes of the inverse sex, and abstain from touching no matter what. In any case, all these are as yet transitory arrangements that won't totally demolish the seeds of sexuality from inside us. Until the point that every one of these seeds of sexuality are totally wrecked, sexual wants can emerge whenever, even at a maturity.
The most critical approach to completely annihilate sexuality is to totally cheapen it. Downgrade the question of fascination (i.e. a man, thought, body parts, and so forth.) to zero. A man should consider all the ways that the delight got from sexuality is simply deceptive, isn't genuine, and is just transitory. When we are enjoyed some type of sexuality, we have a tendency to overlook how messy the human body really is. For example, we overlook that each pore and opening in our body discharges squander which smells horrendous. In the event that dung, sweat, and other release notice so awful, envision how it would be inside the body. Imagining the human body without skin isn't a lovely sight either. This training is done not to make scorn, but rather to comprehend and get the genuine picture of how the human body is, with the goal that we don't get pulled in to it. For the individuals who needed to hone abstinence, Param Pujya Dadashri had given an exceptional understanding called "Three Vision." The Three Vision, he stated, would influence a man to take a gander at the physical body the way it really is, with the goal that we don't have any deceptive connection for it.
Dadashri: "Utilize a similar investigation that I had utilized for myself. For me this examination is always set up and it had kept me mindful even before edification. At the point when my eyes fall on somebody wearing wonderful garments, a saree worth two thousand Rupees, I wind up noticeably mindful and my first vision see her without garments. At that point a moment mindfulness emerges and I see the body without the skin and afterward the third mindfulness emerges and I see the digestion tracts, the kind you see when the stomach is cut open. I can likewise observe changes that happen inside the digestion tracts. I can see veins; I can see fecal issue and so on. I can see all the decline along these lines. At that point there is no way of sexual drive emerging, right? In this, the Soul is the main unadulterated thing and that is the place my vision stops. In this way, in what capacity can any hallucination over sex ever happen?"
To put it plainly, the Three Vision includes envisioning the individual your identity pulled in to as: 1. Without garments, 2. Without Skin, 3. Inward organs, muscles, bones, blood, fecal issue, pee, and so forth. Every one of the three dreams ought to be utilized at the same time and inside a couple of moments. Downgrading ought to be done to a point where nothing identified with sexuality can snatch your consideration notwithstanding for a small amount of a moment.
Try not to wind up plainly inquisitive for anything identified with sexuality. We have a tendency to expect that we will wind up plainly upbeat in the wake of encountering sexuality, either through contemplations or activities. We wind up noticeably inquisitive and attempt better approaches to encounter sexuality, yet at last, the fulfillment that we had expected, never comes. Along these lines, we again search for various approaches to get joy. This ends up noticeably like a dependence which is never satisfied. This will at that point proceed with like an endless loop. The best way to leave this interest is to acknowledge with assurance that genuine bliss will never emerge from sexuality.
A definitive advance for disposing of sexual wants is to comprehend with conviction that there is no satisfaction in any type of sexuality in any capacity. Keeping in mind the end goal to accomplish this, one needs to taste the delight that is higher than that got from sexual joys. That delight must be accomplished from one's own particular Pure Soul. To encounter the ecstasy of Pure Soul, a man must achieve Self-acknowledgment.
At long last, a man ought to positively do pratikraman (genuine contrition) and request pardoning for the wants that are happening now and the ones that have happened already. The contemplations that are coming right now are growing from the bunch of sexuality that was shaped already. Since this bunch has not been expelled, the considerations will keep on coming in some shape.
Different Solutions:
When sexual driving forces emerge continue discussing the accompanying supplication:
"Dear God! Give me limitless internal quality not to have, make somebody have, nor urge anybody to have any sexual wants, sentiments, or signals towards any living being, be it male, female, or of nonpartisan sex. Give me the preeminent quality to be free from every single sexual want, until the end of time."
The wants happen now as a result of our past supposition that there is bliss in sexuality. By discussing the supplication above and requesting quality, we decimate the conclusion and request the wants to not emerge later on.
Saiyam (control) that comes because of apathy towards erotic delights will keep going forever. This aloofness can just happen through itemized thought about how the bliss determined through exotic delights is just fanciful. As opposed to pondering things that force us more towards sexuality, we should consider every one of the outcomes of being ensnared in sexy joys, and every one of the advantages and significance of brahmacharya (chastity).
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